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		<title>If I Had My Child To Raise Over Again</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[If I had my child to raise over again, I&#8217;d finger paint more, and point the finger less. I&#8217;d do less correcting, and more connecting. I&#8217;d take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes. I would care to know less, and know to care more. I&#8217;d take more hikes and fly more [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><span style="color: #267622;">If I had my child to raise over again,</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #267622;">I&#8217;d finger paint more, and point the finger less.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #267622;">I&#8217;d do less correcting, and more connecting.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #267622;">I&#8217;d take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #267622;">I would care to know less, and know to care more.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #267622;">I&#8217;d take more hikes and fly more kites.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #267622;">I&#8217;d stop playing serious, and seriously play.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #267622;">I&#8217;d run through more fields, and gaze at more stars.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #267622;">I&#8217;d do more hugging, and less tugging.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #267622;">I would be firm less often, and affirm much more.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #267622;">I&#8217;d build self-esteem first, and the house later.</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #267622;">I&#8217;d teach less about the love of power,</span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: #267622;">And more about the power of love.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong>From the book &#8220;100 Ways to Build Self-Esteem &amp; Teach Values&#8221; by <a href="http://www.dianaloomans.com/index.php">Diana Loomans</a>. Click below to purchase through amazon. </strong></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.ubpub.com/index.html">Valerie Fitzenreiter </a>is the author of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0972941606?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=adayinourlive-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0972941606">The Unprocessed Child: Living Without School</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=adayinourlive-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0972941606" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />, a book about that she describes as &#8220;&#8230;how we raised our daughter, Laurie, with attachment <a href="http://astore.amazon.com/unschoolingstore-20?_encoding=UTF8&amp;node=2" class="kblinker" title="More about parenting &raquo;">parenting</a> and unschooling methods. I discuss issues that concern parents who are considering unschooling their children and offer advice on living a peaceful coexistence with children&#8221;.</p>
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