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Unschooling Article: The Chicago Sun

Published by Joanne on May 26, 2009

*originally posted in 2006*

Eighteen-year-old Abby Stewart got word this month that she won early admission to elite Princeton University, even though she has never set foot in a high school classroom. She also wrapped up a huge challenge — dancing the Snow Queen role in “The Nutcracker Suite” at the Athenaeum Theatre — largely because she has never set foot in a high school classroom.

Five years ago, frustrated with the pace and depth of a Chicago Public School gifted program, Abby withdrew from eighth grade and entered uncharted territory — a branch of home schooling often called “unschooling.” Under this ultimate form of “child-directed” learning, Abby used no set curriculum. She called her own hours, worked at her own pace and, most important, followed her own interests — without taking tests or receiving grades. Some days, she’d wake up, grab a bowl of cereal and go back to bed with a book.

Since then, she has amassed a six-page reading list ranging from Charles Darwin’s The Origin of Species to Holt, Rinehart and Winston’s Calculus to 16 Shakespearean plays. “I do exactly what feels right to me,” says Abby. “If I want to just read literature for three weeks or three months, that’s perfectly fine with my family.”

The flexibility of unschooling made it easier for Abby to take ballet classes six days a week, resulting in the shopping bag full of pointe shoes in the corner of her Hyde Park bedroom and her recent role in Ballet Chicago’s Studio Company production of “The Nutcracker Suite.”
Abby also volunteers three days a week at the Field Museum, where she reduces animal carcasses to bones. Her first day at work, she was given a pair of gloves and a scalpel and directed to the remains of a Siberian tiger.

“Compared to a kid in high school with worms and frogs, it’s pretty heady stuff,” said her dad, Dana Stewart, a sleep researcher at the University of Chicago Hospitals. ‘Delight-driven learning’ by some counts, Abby is part of a growing movement, at least in the Chicago area.

Federal officials estimate that about 1.1 million students nationwide were home-schooled in 2003, up a hefty 30 percent from four years earlier. Although numbers on unschooling are more difficult to come by, since 1999, at least five unschooling online support groups have sprung up in Illinois, four of them concentrated in the six-county Chicago area, said Melissa Bradford, founder of Many Rivers Unschooling, serving mostly DuPage and Will counties.

“It’s definitely growing. Look at our group,” said Winifred Haun, a choreographer and dancer who co-founded Northside Unschoolers of Chicago in 2001 with some half-dozen families. Last year, membership hit 100.

Unschooling is rooted in the ideas of education reformer John Holt, who said children are innately curious and will learn what they need to know when they need to know it. That doesn’t mean unschoolers won’t ever take conventional classes. Art enthusiasts may take art classes. Teens who want to go to college may take community college classes first.

Unschoolers figure out what they want to do in life and then learn what they need to get there. Advocates say they absorb material better by learning it when they need it. One unschooling Web site calls the approach “delight-driven learning.” Author Pat Farenga, a student of Holt’s, calls it “the natural way to learn.” “This is the way we learn before going to school and the way we learn when we leave school and enter the world of work,” Farenga writes in Teach Your Own: The John Holt Book of Unschooling.

One Northside Unschoolers mom was seeking an alternative to the test emphasis and heavy homework in her public school. Other unschooling parents may want to avoid labels schools put on especially active kids or late readers.

“The hardest thing for most people … is that you have to trust that the child will learn,” said Mary Griffith, author of The Unschooling Handbook: How to Use the Whole World As Your Child’s Classroom.”For those of us who had late readers, it was really hard. A lot of unschooled kids don’t learn to read when they are 6. Sometimes waiting until they are 7, 8 or 9 is quite common,” said Griffith.

“But once they learn to read, they read anything and everything.”
‘Noodling around’ The tools of unschooling in the early years are scattered across a third-floor playroom of Winifred Haun’s turn-of-the-century Oak Park home.

Dice and board games help daughters Athena, 10; Iris, 5, and Selene, 2, learn math — and social skills. Pads of paper, pencils and markers are there for writing and drawing. Books are omnipresent.

This “unschooling” morning, Iris and Athena have completed math problems they asked their dad, Stephen Parke, a Harvard grad and physicist at Argonne National Laboratory, to create. “Iris was interested in 1 plus 1 is 2,” Haun says, so Parke’s worksheet expands the idea all the way up to 50 plus 50. Athena’s problems amount to early algebra. Selene plays on a futon as Iris works with her mom on sewing and Athena announces “I need to practice my writing.”

Athena has seen what she’s missing — and doesn’t miss it.
“I’ve been to school for a day. It was fun, but I like it here better. In school, they just sat there while the teacher talked,” Athena says.
Athena knows some question whether home-schoolers will develop the proper social skills away from a classroom full of kids their age.
“I say home-schoolers do get social skills,” Athena says. “I go to choir where there’s one other kid who’s home schooled. And I go to a home-schooling group where there are kids of all ages. And I have Girl Scouts and ballet.”

Haun said some days her kids “just noodle around, but they are investing in days when they produce more.” Besides, she said, “You can teach your kid in 90 minutes a day what it takes the school six hours. … The other 4½ hours are, ‘Stand up. Sit up. Let’s go to the bathroom. Let’s take attendance. …’ “If my daughter needs to know … how to find her friend’s name in the phone book, I can take five minutes and explain to her about alphabetizing,” Haun said. “I don’t have to test her. I know when she can look up the name on her own.”

In their teenage years, said Grace Llewellyn, author of The Teenage Liberation Handbook, unschooling kids can study biology with a textbook, in a community college or with software. Or they can befriend a doctor and brainstorm on books to read or projects to do. Or they can volunteer to work in a veterinarian’s office. “The sky is the limit,” Llewellyn said.

The college question Abby’s dad and mom, a hospice social worker, gave their three children a taste of school (all won admission to gifted programs), and eventually let them decide if they wanted to stay there. All three wound up pretty much unschoolers, with the oldest graduating from Dartmouth in June. Abby wanted to go to college, too, and plunged into subjects she’d need to get there.
To prepare for the SAT college admission tests, she bought some test prep books and took some old subject matter tests. She posted knockout scores: an overall SAT of 2,350 out of 2,400.

To pad out her track record, she also took the SAT world history, literature and U.S. history tests, scoring 800, 790 and 780, respectively, on an 800-point scale.

Not all unschoolers or home-schoolers have Abby’s scores, but on another popular college admission test, the ACT, test-takers who identified themselves as home-schoolers have scored a notch above the national average for the last decade. This year, they averaged 22.4 on a 36-point scale compared with a national average of 21.2.
Before Abby got the news last week that she had won early admission to Princeton, she had researched applying to seven other colleges and found them “pretty forgiving” about her lack of a traditional grade-point average.

At Harvard University, admissions director Marlyn McGrath Lewis said, unschoolers without transcripts can submit college admission scores, and then “tell us what they have done in the way of academic preparation for college, and we’ll take it from there.” Some may wonder if unschoolers can adjust to the structure of college life. After the regimen of ballet classes, Abby doesn’t expect problems.
Unschooler Sam Dickey, 23, an Oak Park native now attending Beloit College after four years at a community college, said he has no difficulty making it to classes. He found he performs well on deadline and is a “very good writer” despite never having written a research paper before college.

But just like traditional schoolers, not all unschoolers want college.
Jan Hunt, an unschooling counselor who operates the Natural Child Project Web site, said her unschooled son didn’t go to college. He started a computer consulting company instead. “He continually beats us at Trivial Pursuit. He’s an incredible editor,” said Hunt. “He can do any math problem in his head. I have the proof in the pudding right here.” Yet even advocates caution that unschooling is not for everyone. “It’s just kind of a scary way of doing things. Not many people are willing to go out on that limb,” said Dorothy Werner, founder of Home Oriented Unique Schooling Experience, an Illinois home-schooling support group. “You have to trust that children want to learn. You can’t believe that children must be forced to learn,” Werner said.

“Parents who need to be in control … would have a hard time. If you want your child to be learning the same factoids as the child next door, unschooling is not for you.”

Home-schooling researcher Michael Apple, an education professor at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, is “wary of the hype.” He wonders what unschoolers are really learning about people of other races, religions and cultures. “There is no public accountability,” Apple said. Counters unschooling author Farenga: “Who is going to be the commissar of correct thought?”

William Schubert, professor of curriculum studies at the University of Illinois at Chicago, home-schooled his daughter using a few unschooling ideas. He says unschooling can be positive, but requires time, resources and “dialogue with … well-educated people.”
“We don’t know that children are innately curious. The question is open,” Schubert said.

Unschooling may be easier for parents with the time and resources, Farenga agrees, but “everyone can find that within their own little sphere.” “I’m not trying to make this sound like it’s easy,” Farenga said, “but it’s not easy if your child is failing or hurting in school, either.”

Abby and others insist every child has a passion waiting to be ignited.
“Every person has something they absolutely adore and would like to do for the rest of their life,” Abby said. “If you can pinpoint that, and have your kids run with it, you’d be amazed how excited your kids can be about learning.”

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Making Slime

Published by Joanne on May 24, 2009

We’ve made slime a few times and this is the best recipe I have found so far. It’s very slimy and smooth…. and turns out great! My kids love squeezing it through their fingers.  We used neon food coloring so the color was nice and bright!

Need:
Borax (can bought in the laundry detergent aisle.)
White glue (like Elmers)
Food coloring
Ziploc bags
measuring cups and spoons (We have some set aside for projects like this)

1. In a bowl mix ½ teaspoon Borax with ½ cup of water. Stir until dissolved.
2. In another bowl, mix ½ cup of white glue with 1 cup of water.

make slime

3. Pour the glue mixture into the zipper bag. Then, slowly pour in the borax mixture. Add a few drops of food coloring
4. Seal bag, knead the mixture until you have slime. :)

make slime

Keep your slime in the sealed bag in the refrigerator when not playing with it to keep it longer. Unfortunately it may eventually dry out or grow mold. Just throw it out and start again!

How It Works:
The borax is acting as the crosslinking agent or “connector” for the glue (polyvinyl acetate) molecules. Once the glue molecules join together to form even larger molecules called polymers, you get a thickened gel very similar to slime.

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My Five Best Homeschooling Tips

Published by Joanne on May 20, 2009

I’ve been a homeschooling (unschooling actually) mama since 2004 and I’ve made some “mistakes” along the way, but I always tried to look at them as a learning experience. When the Pass The Torch blog asked homeschoolers for their best tips, I decided to share five of my best ones.

1. Give yourself some time to deschool.
Letting go preconceived notions about school and learning is a gift you can give yourself, and your children. My own deschooling is a work in progress and the more I see unschooling first hand, the more I question what I once thought about education and learning.

2. Expect a period of deschooling from your children.
It’s been said that one month per every year of school is common. As I said in a previous post about deschooling, “your child has probably their natural desire to learn squashed and will need time to recover from that. With a parent’s help, they can gain back most, if not all of what they lost and begin to see the world as a place where learning is enjoyable, and all around us”.

3. Let your children feel your energy and passion for life. Light a fire within yourself and let it burn so brightly that they see it! What are your interests? Is there something you’ve always wanted to learn? Do It! Let them see YOU learning and living life to the fullest. Be curious. Be interested in life.

4. Don’t make the mistake of duplicating at home, what you didn’t like about school. Sometimes we just automatically repeat the same patterns, without even thinking about it, just because it’s all we know, it’s what we’re used to or it’s what we’ve always done. Replace school with a full and interesting life. The public school system can not compete with that. They can’t even come close.

5. Don’t make cookies to teach math.
Make cookies because they taste good. :-)

*originally posted in 2007*

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Courier Journal Unschooling Article

Published by Joanne on May 19, 2009

Unschooling‘ popularity grows: Children pursue what interests them

As other children are waking up and heading toward the school bus on a Tuesday morning, Adele Schiessle asks her children if they want to spend the day playing on a 6,000-square-foot indoor inflatable play area.

Collin, 6, and Amber, 7, agree that would be a pleasant way to start the morning. After they play on the bouncy furniture, they head back to their home in St. John, where they spend the rest of the day watching TV, navigating XBox, working on art projects and playing games.

It is just another day in the Schiessle household, where the children learn through a branch of homeschooling called unschooling.

While the definition of unschooling varies, it generally reflects a concept of child-led learning.

For Carol Pozos’ oldest child, it meant self-taught reading at age 4.
For 18-year-old Abby Stewart of Chicago, it meant the recent news that she had won early admission to Princeton.

“It’s an awareness that learning is always happening because it’s part of living,” said Jane Van Stelle Haded of Hobart, who unschools her two children. “It’s almost trying to capitalize on whatever your children are interested in.”

Unschooled children don’t go to school, but unlike other homeschoolers they don’t necessarily learn through workbooks, educational guides or study sources. Instead, the children pursue what interests them. The unschooling concept has been around for decades, but it’s been slow to catch on, as initially most parents shy away from letting their children have such control over their own education.

“I’m trying to get rid of the idea that learning happens at a certain time in a certain place,” Van Stelle Haded said.

There aren’t any statistics on unschoolers yet, but the popularity of unschooling is reflected in the number of message boards on the Internet, in the abundance of unschooling clubs, in the frequency of unschooling conferences and in the slow but steady movement of unschooling into the vocabulary of educators.

Part of the increased attention on alternative education may be the rebellion against educational initiatives such as No Child Left Behind. It was one of the reasons Janna Odenthal of Chesterton embraced unschooling for her child. “The testing doesn’t do any good,” she said.
In a 2003 survey by the U.S. Department of Education, the number of children educated at home nationally was 1.1 million, an increase of 29 percent from the previous study in 1999.

Seth Odenthal, 10, has been unschooled since he was about 5.
“I went ahead and gave it a try, and I fell in love with the things we could do together, the flexibility in our schedule,” his mother said. When Seth took an early interest in cooking and baking, Odenthal embraced his curiosity, and the two of them cook together. She even signed him up for a local cooking class. Seth never formally learned math, but Odenthal said he excels at it because it’s a natural progression from his cooking interests.

Indiana doesn’t require the unschoolers to take standardized tests, and parents are allowed to give their unschooled children high school diplomas when the parents believe the children are ready to graduate.

Since education laws in Indiana are loose, parents of unschoolers can take different approaches to learning. But most tend to have a few common practices. Students don’t sit at desks to learn, as parents believe learning happens all the time. And while they aren’t taught how to read or write or do science, the children usually ask their parents enough questions that they eventually learn on their own.

“My oldest was reading on her own without being taught before she turned 5,” said Carol Pozos, who unschools her three children in her Michigan City home. “I did not do anything except read to her, and she soaked it up and was reading full sentences. I thought to myself, ‘Obviously, this works.’ ” Pozos, who has a degree in elementary education, enrolled one of her children in preschool because the child had been begging her to go to school since she was 3. But when her daughter refused to return to school halfway through the year, Pozos decided to try teaching her children herself. Her children are 8, 7 and 4, and other than a half-year of preschool, all three have been learning at home their entire lives. They also have chores they’re required to do every morning.

And once they finish their chores? “We do whatever we want,” said 8-year-old Isabel, who spent a recent afternoon on the floor of her living room flipping through a picture book with her 4-year-old brother. On Thursday mornings the children attend an art class filled with unschoolers and their parents. “Books are out, and if they want to draw they can draw,” Pozos said of the class. “If they don’t want to participate, they can go off in the corner and play.”

To prepare for the SAT college admission tests, 18-year-old unschooler Abby Stewart bought some test prep books and took some old subject matter tests. She posted an overall SAT score of 2,350 out of a possible 2,400.

Pozos said she’d be happy if her children went to college, as long as they are happy with their decision. “I’m not one of those people who says, ‘I want my son to be a doctor and my daughter to be an attorney.’ I just want them to be happy. If Armand wants to be a stay-at-home dad and Isabel wants to be a marine biologist, that’s just fine.”

**originally posted in 2007**

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Quotes About School

Published by Joanne on May 18, 2009

“It is nothing short of a miracle that the modern methods of instruction have not yet entirely strangled the holy curiosity of inquiry; for this delicate little plant, aside from stimulation, stands mainly in need of freedom; without this it goes to wreak and ruin. It is a very grave mistake to think that the enjoyment of seeing and searching can be promoted by means of coercion and a sense of duty.”
-Albert Einstein

“Thank goodness I was never sent to school; it would have rubbed off some of the originality.”
- Beatrix Potter

“A child only educated at school in an uneducated one.”
-George Santayana

“Education is what you must acquire without any interference from your schooling.”
-Mark Twain

“My schooling not only failed to teach me what it professed to be teaching, but prevented me from being educated to an extent which infuriates me when I think of all I might have learned at home by myself.”
-George Bernard Shaw ”

“Schools and schooling are increasingly irrelevant to the great enterprises of the planet. No one believes any more that scientists are trained in science classes or politicians in civics classes or poets in English classes. The truth is that schools don’t really teach anything except how to obey orders.”
-John Taylor Gatto

“My grandmother wanted me to have an education, so she kept me out of school”.
-Margaret Mead

And my favorite…..

“Drop out of school before your mind rots from exposure to our mediocre educational system.
-Frank Zappa

I’d like to add this one also. It from my daughter Shawna

“Home is better”
-Shawna (at age 10), when asked by her former public school teacher why she liked being home schooled.

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